Stupid Partner

I hate to call  a person is stupid.If he/she will do one or all what is underneath  then I'm tempted to call that person a stupid.

FINANCE

If he/she

1.overspends and make senseless loans. 

2.does not participate on the family finances.

3.keeps on borrowing  on top of other loans.

4.is being bail out continuously.

FAMILY MATTERS

If he/she

1.abuses the family for the personal gain.

2.does not accept his/her responsibilities.

3.values  Outsiders,taking every family matter to Outsiders.

4.allows the family  to be attacked by Outsiders.

LOVE

He/She

1.must have a strong love  bond.

2.ought not pass  the bad remarks  in absentia/presence of  his/her Lover.

3.have multi lovers.

4.celebrate the fall or problems of the partner.